Socialization
27th August, 2006Today, I was thinking about how people act. Have you ever noticed that you act a certain way around some people and act another way around others? I sure have. I thought why is it that when around some people I act really friendly and fun, and then around others I act shy and reserved, and still around others I act observant and bold? I guess it may have to do with my personality type. That I am a balance of all types. This has it’s pros and cons of course. I’m able to blend in, act like you, stand out, or stand back. I guess it depends on my mood at the time. Weird I know, but it’s true. I think that’s probably why I like change so much. And I think since I’m a balance of all types I am not as loud in just one type. So let’s say if I am in a group of people and there is one LOUD person I will shut right up, literally, unless of course I feel comfortable, outgoing, and energetic.
Do you notice that with yourselves though? That that is how you act around people? Or even around fellow bloggers? Do you try to mimic others just so they feel comfortable around you? Oh wait a minute, I know some of you will be too scared to answer that, so let’s see what’s another question for those that are scared to be *too* honest with the world of bloggy bloggers? Hmmm…perhaps this one will do, do you ever think, how can I reach that person? We are so different? or We have nothing in common? or I don’t feel like talking anyway. Or What’s the matter with me, I’m an adult I should step out of this comfort zone and introduce myself? Or maybe I shouldn’t try helping people, maybe I should just let them figure it out themselves. Or maybe I should learn to deal with constructive critism. But I personally think to myself, what is that anyway? Sure it’s someone trying to help you improve, but if you’re me, that could also be a personal attack.
Hmmm…life? It is rather messy isn’t it? So many ideas, so many decisions, so many people to deal with, so many up-bringings, so many differences, can we all someday live in harmony with eachother? The Bible says to, so I better do it. With this life, I will let the good times roll, as I come up against the indifferences of society, culture, and class. What does THAT mean, you’re probably thinking? Hmmm…that’s D just trying to sound smart, ok ok, I’ll break it down, basically I as well as everyone else will just have to live with this life and how it’s dealt, whether we ask for God’s help or not. Oh and btw I believe that everyone*knows* what God wants from them, they just decide not to obey, because they think they know what’s best, I can understand though of course because my humanity comes out and says, "hey wait a minute, I can *see* this, this is tangible why wouldn’t it be the right thing to do?" So yes, I totally understand. We are all built pretty much the same. God defiantly knew what He was doing, that’s for sure. Anyway, I think I just spat my little z’s into the wind for you all to catch and think about. (z’s? Well you are reading "Dzzzzz Thoughts" are you not?)
Basically, what I’m saying here is, if I have ever looked, acted, or sounded strange to you it was because of these kind of thoughts. I am totally being honest with you and maybe I shouldn’t be, but this IS how it is for me. (Since, I’m such a nice person I’m letting you read my mind. Yikes!)
Hey! Long time, no see. Good post. Not too deep, but a lot at once. It’s crazy how people’s thoughts can flow so quickly from one thing to another while still staying connected. I know what you mean about acting differently around certain people though. I usually like to stay in the background, but when no one else seems to be taking charge, I will. Part of me admires when people can mimic those around them to “fit in” or to “make everyone comfortable”. I do not have a personality that is so balanced that I can do that. Anyways, it was good to read some of your thoughts.